Real PUAs Secrets of Getting Girls: Wrabbit!
Wednesday, August 25th, 2010Good evening and welcome to our Real PUAs series, where we track down PUAs who are good at game and find out their secrets of getting girls. You can’t put numbers on this – it’s just a pure description of game.
Before I officially launch the player profiles, I’m going to subject myself to the same process the other guys will go through. Sort of like how all cops must get tased before they can carry a non-lethal piece.
Like this. But intentional.
Player Profile: Wrabbit
Social Personality Traits in 6 words or less…
smartass frat-boy Renaissance geek
Goals with game?
I’m looking for my dream girl, and along the way I want to have a lot of wild and crazy adventures.
Where do you typically meet women?
I’ve done some day game, but it’s mostly lounges and clubs.
How you typically open up in bars and clubs…
Most of the time I’m too lazy to think of some line, so I usually keep it simple. If it’s one or two girls I’ll be direct most of the time. If it’s a larger group I say whatever comes off the top of my head which usually ends up being entertaining in a really dumb way. At least to me.
Do you have any women in your life right now?
Yes I do. I’ll leave it at that.
How has your love life improved since you learned this stuff?
Looking back it’s been a pretty dramatic change, though it took a few years and I didn’t notice at first. Keeping a journal helped me track how dramatic the change was.
Your perspective on women…
A lot of guys see this pick-up thing as a battle or some kind of war. This is a big WTF to me. The girl wants sexual intimacy with someone she desires just as much as the guy does, it’s just society or circumstances that subvert this from being expressed. It’s anything but a conflict, it’s about building up something positive with someone who really just wants the same thing. And banging them utterly senseless.
An iconic moment that defines your game in a nutshell?
I once met a girl who made every sentence out of her mouth into a challenge. She wouldn’t believe anything I said. I bounced it right back at her without batting an eye. We dated for a few months.
Some of your best tips on game, from your experience?
Read this blog dummy.
Self-reported greatest weakness
Look! A squirrel.
I’ve got a very short attention span when it comes to women. If a girl isn’t into me fast, I’m out like lightning. This is good on some levels, but I take this to an extreme. My “slow burn” game (a Braddock specialty) suffers as a result, and there are many times where I could have built a connection with a top quality woman if I had just put in more effort and taken things slower.
Self-reported greatest strength
When I’m ON, I can tease and banter with the best of ‘em.
(OK so this is the part where I’m supposed to give my observations of the player in question after seeing them in action. Since I’d rather not try any fake pseudo-third-person mental wanking, I asked a friend to evaluate me here. Here’s what he said)
Observed weaknesses
“[One night] we went out with 2 girls at this club. It seemed at times he was pretty aloof to the girl he was interested in. That came off as weird to them or a bit awkward.”
I was losing interest in that girl. See what I mean? That’s also a hazard of my style of game, as my friend describes:
Observed strengths
“He seems to have a very relaxed demeanor in set. It seems to be very cool calm and controlled. Other people do really high energy stuff and want to be the center of attention. But it seems like his approach is more low-key in general.”
You don’t have to be super-high-energy party guy to do well. You can get a girl engaged in the interaction with normal conversation, spiked with game here and there.
“Dating is boring. The pattern of interaction or VIBE is normal… normal… normal… SPIKE… normal… normal. It’s not SPIKE SPIKE SPIKE SPIKE like a lot of the internet material would have you believe.”
- Braddock
“He seems very confident going up with the approach. He seems to not really care one way or the other if he gets a negative reaction. It’s good to not feel like you need to be validated by the outcome.”
A lot of this is because I’ve taken Braddock’s advice on Approach Anxiety to heart, especially where he quotes Jim Rohn:
“We suffer one of two things. Either the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. You’ve got to choose discipline, versus regret, because discipline weighs ounces and regret weighs tons.â€
“I’m also seen him go direct before. And I think that that’s a strength to be able to pull that off and do that in a relaxed manner.”
Direct game is high risk, high reward. It takes confidence to do well but it’s great if you’re in a rush, and as Jeremy Soul teaches, perfect for day game.
That’s it for our first standard Player Profile… look for more coming up!
