Real PUAs Secrets of Getting Girls: Brock Landers
Tuesday, January 4th, 2011Today we’ve got Brock Landers in the hot seat. He’s a dapper fellow with a chill relaxed vibe and some serious dance floor game skills.
Player Profile: Brock Landers
Social Personality Traits in 6 words or less…
Artist of Logic, Dancing, and Intrigue.
Goals with game?
Choice in the fact that you don’t have to settle for what just comes your way. Choice in terms of being able to pick and choose from what you want. A lot of people in life don’t have that option.
Where do you usually meet women?
My traditional background is more nightclubs. I like to dance, It’s my Latin blood. I can go to bars and stand around but to me that’s more of a lower energy environment and I don’t function at optimum levels in those places.
How you typically open up in bars and clubs…
I’m not very direct. I learned more when I got into game, more of an indirect game. I do more situational openers. So it’s been harder for me to transition into more direct game. Even though I’ve seen that it works.
I used to do opinion openers but I don’t like them, it feels like a survey. When they have situational relevance it’s stronger.
Do you have any women in your life right now?
I have women that like me, but I don’t necessarily reciprocate. I have this girl in Texas. “I miss you baby.” And this other girl who likes me a lot but she lives too far away.
At a certain point I cut things off. I’m not gonna use her. In the long run it might end up hurting her. I don’t wanna be the one that uses that to my advantage just because I want a cheap thrill.
How has your dating life improved since you learned this stuff?
I’m more aware of my surroundings. The looks that they give me. Everything. I’m more socially conscious in interactions. I’m not just shooting in the dark and seeing what hits.
The more experiences you have provide you with that awareness.
You start to see things clearer. The fog starts to break up.
Your perspective on women…
I always love women. I’m the not the kind of person who solely views them as an object or anything like that. I can appreciate physical beauty but I also understand there’s a feminine energy. It’s soft. Women equals comfort. When you’re a boy, being raised, you fall down and hurt yourself, who helps you feel better?
Beyond the sexual aspect there’s still that motherly aspect of women. They’re caregivers. You may not see it right away but all of them have that side. That’s why you should always to an extent respect them. Because it took a woman to make you. As my friend says, “Goddess Energy.”
An iconic moment that defines your game in a nutshell?
I went to one of those local PUA meetings and then we went out to this club, we couldn’t get in. We were waiting there so long, it was almost 12 o’clock. I left and met some friends at this other place downtown.
I’m gonna salvage the night.
Started dancing with this one girl, and her friends went off to get a drink. I met with them after they got their drinks and kept engaging them. I ended up making out with this girl. I ended up leaving the club with the girl and her friend, and some other guy that was trying to hit on her friend. I could have hooked up with her in the car after I got rid of the other two people, but instead we [explicit sexual details redacted - Ed]. Going from a busted night to a productive one. That was a good one.
Then one time I did direct even before The Game, with this Thai chick. I saw her outside talking on the phone. I just said… “I’m sorry. I just had to tell you you’re gorgeous.” Within a 5 minute interaction I got her number. It went on to be a pretty debaucherous sexual relationship. This girl was a freak. Hot and a freak… We went to the club one time and she wasn’t wearing panties. I knew when I got home what was gonna happen. It was awesome.
Your weaknesses?
Mine is consistency. Sometimes I’m really on. And sometimes I’m weirdly off. Keeping that strong inner game is what I need to work on. Where when you walk into set you’re a god. You can’t just say that to yourself, you have to believe that. Any doubt is gonna be sensed.
Your strengths?
I’m pretty laid back for the most part. I’d say my dance floor game is the thing. Before the game that’s how I picked up girls, on the dance floor. Just the physical, afterwards there was the talking.
Brock’s biggest weakness I’ve seen is inertia. If he’s not on when he gets there, it takes him a long time to get ramped up. Getting to the place late doesn’t work all the time. He can also be too logical sometimes and get caught up in his head. (Getting There Early helps!)
His greatest strength I’ve seen is dance floor game. I’ve seen him pull girls from large groups on the dance floor and make out with them before the group even knows what happened.