Why One Simple Tip Will Increase Your Club Game Results by 25% or more
This one is magic because it’s so simple, but hardly any of the guys I know do this. In fact, they come up with excuses NOT to do it. It boggles my frickin’ mind.
What do guys usually do to improve their odds?
- Blow mad cash on cars, clothes
- Spend hours at the gym
You spend all this money and time on all of these things because you know they’ll improve your game. But the biggest game booster of them all is so simple…
Get There Early!
On the nights where I got there early (before 10), I got at least 1 in 4 more results than before. And my friends say the same thing. Why does getting there early work so well? Well first I gotta trash one big excuse that some of y’all might be thinking.
Excuse: “Nobody’s gonna be there”
It’s how parties work. You don’t want to show up early when all the cool kids are late. It’s not trendy. Or maybe you’ll feel a little awkward. Guess what?
- A) This ain’t a party, it’s a club
- B) that’s how the other early birds are feeling too.
Now here are the reasons why getting to the club early works.
Catch the Solo Early Birds
This is my favorite reason to go out early. When groups of people show up to the club, sometimes some of them get there earlier than others, and end up hanging out alone at the bar for a little while. If you meet a girl who’s by herself early in the night, she’s probably arrived first out of her friends. She’ll be bored out of her mind and eager to talk to anybody. You don’t even have to have a wild and crazy conversation starter here. Even just saying “hi” can work. This is one way to find the fabled perfect 10′s human side before she punches in her clock as general manager of Cockbuster Video.
This also works with solo guys. No you’re not hitting on the dude. If you meet a guy who’s waiting for his friends he’ll be totally chill, and later on in the night you got an inside track to meeting any of his hot lady friends that show up.
Taking Social Risks Looks More Badass
When the crowd is small that’s a perfect time to start conversations. Why? Everyone else is a little uptight at the start of the night, they haven’t gotten their liquid courage on. If you do things that take more social pressure, you’ll stand out from the pack. If you:
- Open up a big group of people
- Dance by yourself on an empty dance floor
Anyone who sees it will wonder how you can do these things with the two melons you’re smuggling in your pants.
Build Social Proof with the Staff
Love Systems Instructor 5.0 mentions that early in the night is the best time to chat with bar staff since they’re not so busy. This is also your best chance to chat up those smokin’ hot waitresses.
You’ve Got More Time to Warm Up
Going from zero to social isn’t an instant process. You gotta ramp it up in steps. Having a simple chat with a few people when it’s early and low-energy lets you crank out a few base hits so you can hit home runs later.
At Clubs Late Sometimes Means Never
Who likes waiting in line for 30 minutes? Also if you’re a guy showing up at the club late they might not even let you in.
Dude we are so getting in.
You Can Break the Ice and Talk to People Later
Tenmagnet mentions that if you open up a group early on, you don’t even have to get very far, or stay with them all night. Just chat for a bit and come back later. The ice is broken. When the club is packed, you’ve got a home base of people you can always chat up again if you need to stay warmed up.
How to Convince Your Boys
You can use some of the points in this article to convince your guy friends: “I know it’s early but let’s GO. The girls will be way more friendly.” But nothing beats this argument: being in mid-chat with hot girls right when your friends roll in.
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