In socializing, and in particular with women, you have to be willing to take up space.
Being confident enough to take the spotlight for a minute or two is strong and healthy. You must be willing to do this.
If a woman smiles at you from across the room, how do you approach her? She’s practically SCREAMING for you to come and talk to her. But, what is NOW the best way to begin the conversation?
Before you even begin to move towards her, remember to keep it simple and never do more than you really need to do.
Use the E/S opener.
I was recently in LA, staying with my friend Cameron Teone, and we HAD to return to the Sunset Strip and revisit Project Hollywood.
While we were dining at Mel’s (where else?) we got the idea to quickly film the walk from the diner, up the hill, to the house. Check out the video we shot…
Most women will not approach you. You “get” that, right?
BUT, they WILL give you signals, or “indicators” of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man. However, there are ‘ways’ she can signal you to approach her. Lets talk about those now…
By now you should know that planning parties, events and outings is the BEST way to meet women (didn’t know that? Read “How To Get A Girlfriend” ). For the *BEST* results you need to enlist a partner in “social” crime…
Your BFFF
Your BFFF=Best Female Friend…”Forever” (sorry, had to).
So, I caught up yesterday with my old friend Barry Kirkey on his online radio show. The chat lasted for about 45 minutes.
He gets me to divulge the backstory of my breakup last year. I talk about the “scene” in the home we shared when I returned from a business trip. It wasn’t pretty. We talk a bit about “Suicide Girls” (and why you should not date a Suicide Girl…) and other stuff. Listen to it here…